Valentines Day Special – ‘Building Relationship’

Relationship matters the most. We all know without a relationship we cannot survive. Today is ‘Valentines Day’ but there are many broken relationships. So let me share with you few magic bullets for building and rebuilding your relationship, which includes one or more of the following actions:

1. Talk clearly & in details
2. Maintain Stability
3. Forgive Each Other
4. Pray with & for each other
5. Send letters, cards, and flowers (gifts)
6. Be Attentive
7. Set Priorities
8. Discuss, Discuss and Discuss Everything
9. Answer all questions
10. Meet each other’s needs
11. Do something good for the members of each others family
12. Keep good relationship with both of your parents
13. Do not scold or criticize each other before others
14. Respect Each others views
15. Show sympathy as well as empathy
16. Learn to Listen
17. Do things together
18. Involve each other in your own interests
19. Be honest to each other
20. Be responsible, do not accuse each other
21. Learn Tolerance & Self-control
22. Show humility (which really calms down a ‘relationship storm’)
23. Enjoy each other’s Presence
24. Do not be selfish
And last but not the least (in fact the greatest)
25. Try to comprehend ‘what is LOVE’ and then practice it daily

Love is – “Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not boast and love is not arrogant, love does not act improperly; love does not seek its own, love is not provoked, love does not take into account a wrong suffered, love does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; love bears all things, love believes all things, love hopes all things, love endures all things. Love never fails; but now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-8a, 13)

More over remember FOUR VITAL STEPS of any relationship:

1) Experiencing and understanding your own feelings deeply
2) Expressing yourself clearly and openly to your partner
3) Experiencing and understanding your partner’s feelings deeply
4) Taking responsibility for our actions and reactions (behaviour)

Wish you a Happy Valentines Day!